i was always quiet in all my classes and mostly around guys even if i was friends with them for years... i always say im going to talk each summer before school starts but i end up chickening out... HELP!! i don't know how to get over being shy in front of my classes and guys!! ='(
~thanksHow can i become outgoing?Throughout life, I always thought of myself as a shy, nerdy and weird person that can't accomplish any thing.
Right before Sophomore year started, I figured I will get my **** together.
I changed my attitude over summer, asked many questions on Yahoo Answers, and worked out; because I felt that having a healthy body will give me peace of mind and confidence.
Immediately when I started school, I became outgoing and hooked up with a really cute girl that was shy also. She was 5 feet 11 inches and was not confident about herself because she thought being tall wasn't as attractive.
I stepped in and showed her how attractive she really was.
Over the year I blended in more to society and hooked up with an other girl that had many past problems, but was really attractive.
The point is, having confidence not only helps you, but it helps people who are closest to you.
I still don't prefer my body, I'm 6 feet 1.5 and only 128 pounds, becuabecauseamily grows tall not very wide, but I don't give a **** about the ignorant things people think.
I stay confident and I think of the positives: I dont get acne, I look like I'm 21 when I'm 16 and I can hook up with girls not worring about how tall I am.
Doing these things will make youmore confident and is a better answer than saying %26quot;just practice%26quot; or %26quot;get over it%26quot;. Theres more to it thatn that.
I hope you have success!
The summer isn't over yet!
You still have time to change!How can i become outgoing?practice makes perfect. Your going to just have to 'man up' and go for it. I always thought it helped to wear sun glasses with large crowds of people.. If we don't make eye contact, it seems to make things easier.How can i become outgoing?You seem to have a fear. Shyness is a fear. You are afraid of putting yourself out there. To get out of this I would start by talking to one person. You will meet other people by becoming friends with one person. Start conversation. It'll be good from there.How can i become outgoing?Just be yourself. Let loose! just try to be friendly and focus on your work too! =0) Hope this helps!How can i become outgoing?I always get the feeling that people who don't talk don't feel like risking their dignity. One little thing I learned is not to think about %26quot;what happens next%26quot; so much. Be brave!How can i become outgoing?Well, I mean, I'm starting my junior year this August and want to be more outgoing. I wasn't the most outgoing person around, but what I noticed that helped me was feeling confident. Whether it's my putting on a nice outfit, making my hair a certain way, or taking a run before school, confidence is key. If you're not confident, than that might stop you from talking. BE CONFIDENT. Be yourself. :)
